Sunday, March 21, 2010

Let me try to catch up the beginning of 2010.



This has been a great start to a new year... I can feel it. I was called to be the second counselor in the Primary Presidency at the beginning of the year. When I was asked, I was a little surprised, especially since I had been going through some tough times, but what a wonderful blessing it has been. I did not know the Primary President and she did not know who I was. She let me know that she was given names to pray about and got her answer to this through prayer. This was really a testimony to her of the power of prayer. I was given sweet counsel from my Bishop as he layed his hands on my head to give me a blessing to be able to accomplish this new assignment. I know that my Heavenly Father loves me and wants me to speak my mind and bring my life experiences to the table. One of the other things that has stuck with me is this: When I was asked to accept this call, The member of the Bishopric instucted me to go to the Lord with problems or concerns that may arise. I needed to hear and know this. I love the children in our ward... I have been able to instruct a lot of them as a teacher for the past few years.... I really do have a spot for all of them in my heart. Sometimes it is tough to join and merge ideas of others into one, but with the help of the spirit we are able to do this. My kids love that I am in sharing time with them and that I am giving the lessons. My Heavenly Father sure knew that I needed to serve more dilligently and step outside of me and give to those around me. I am grateful for this new calling.


My kids are all doing great in school and at home. They are so wise and really try hard to do what is right. They are not always perfect...they struggle with things; here are a few...


Madison: Nightime has been tough for her lately. She will get lots of worries as soon as she gets into her bed. We bought a book called "What to do if you dread your bed". It had some great tips and a new bedtime schedule to follow. It goes as follows: Nightime activity (30 min before bedtime) for 30 minutes (coloring, puzzles, boardgame, books ). Then a shift activity (10 minutes long) we have a light snack and then family scriptures and prayer and bathroom...then off to bed. In bed I will sit with Madison for 15 minutes and read to her. This is such a special time (our favorite of the day) for us. I lay down next to her and say a prayer for her and then sing her a song; her choice. Then off to bed for her. We rewarded her with $1 dollars each night that she stayed in her bed for 21 days(habit is formed in this amount of time). She is doing great! We are so proud of her hard work.

Davin: lets see. Right now the only thing that he is struggling with is using a whiny voice when he gets mad or something doesn't go his way. He also thinks it's funny to say the word"butt" and "poop". He said that he sometimes thinks they are funny words, but he knows that they are not nice to say.


Blane: Well Blane is our 3rd child who is three...what more do I need to say. His struggles right now are that he likes to say "Davin you go poo poo in a diaper" and he likes to put a diaper on and go pee in it. He also is having a hard time not picking his nose. I think he just needs to keep his hands busy.


Vance: Lets see...Vance is so fun right now. He is not talking yet, so he likes to scream when he doesn't get his way or when his older brothers or sister take something from him. I would probably scream about that too.


Some of my favorite things they are doing right now:


Madison: She loves to play the piano...she is really getting good at it. She likes to sing and dance and draw and color and put make-up on and pick out really cute outfits. She likes to help mop the floor in the house and she likes to read and write. Math is a little struggle for her, but she is doing so good staying on track. She is a good student and such a special daughter. I love her. She is learning to trust in and lean on Heavenly Father for things she might need. This is neat to see her grow spiritually. I really love my sweet daughter!




Davin: Is really taking off with reading. He is learning so many sight words. He helps to read during family scripture time and he hardly needs any help. He is really good at math. We will ask him "what is 9+7?" He will respond in 5 seconds with the right answer. He is working on writing neatly. He does really well with his spelling tests too. At home he loves to play the wii and he just started T-ball. He is a fast runner and a good hitter. His personality is really coming out. He is funny and caring and close to the spirit. I sure love him.




Blane: What a unique child he is! I really enjoy his personality. He can be so caring and sweet. He already learned how to ride his bike without training wheels. His Dad taught him in only 5 minutes! He loves riding around on his bike, playing in the sand, dirt, mud and water. He likes to color and draw pictures and he especially likes play doh! He is smart, especially about spiritual things. He really takes it all in. I can't believe he is my child! I love him a ton.




Vance: Where to begin! He is walking....finally. He started walking when he was 16 months old. He can say some words..... ba=ball; Jes=jesus; Mama=Mom; Dada=Dad; he tries to say hi and hello. Everything else that he wants or needs he makes these sounds...uuuuuhh and aaahh. He can blow kisses and wave Hi and bye-bye. When we ask for kisses he sticks out his tounge and blows. He thinks it is sooo funny! I have to say that it makes us all laugh. He does lean in for kisses and gives hugs too. He also makes this grunting laugh that is so cute. He likes his bed and goes to sleep in his crib so easily. He is such a happy boy. I love him so much.

Monday, March 8, 2010

I am grateful for...




  • My Grandma Dalhston. My kids nana. She was something else! And I feel blessed to have had her in my life and my kids life as long as I did.



  • My home.



  • My Scriptures and I am proud to say that me and Dason had set a goal in Dec. 09' to complete reading the Book of Mormon by Valentines day..... (we did it!)



  • The way I feel when I read the inspired words and counsel given in this book.



  • Really immersing myself in the scriptures and learning and growing during the end of this year.



  • Family vacations...Camping, California, Thatcher.



  • Having a great family; both immediate and extended.



  • Trials. I have had some hard situations to go throughduring some of 2009, and I can say that it was one of the toughest times of my WHOLE life. I learned so much about the person I was and the person that I desired to become. I had been missing something MORE in my life and I am sure that I would not have been able to obtain it without having gone through what I did.



  • Prayer. I really needed to pray a lot. At times I was mad and did not want to pray, but I knew I needed to so that i could be strengthened. I have always struggled with being an consistent prayer, I have always tryed to figure all the answers out on my own, but this just felt too big for me to manage on my own. I had to really ask and trust that my Heavenly Father would guide me and answer my prayers. I have a strong testimony now. I will not doubt again.



  • My Brother. He is so funny, smart and a great Uncle to his Niece and Nephews. He will be married in 2010...YaY!



  • My Sisters. They love my kids, they love me. I can't imagine my liofe without either of them!



  • My husband. I know he loves me and cares deeply for me. He is always trying to be better and I love this about him.



  • My Vance. Love him and his cute personality! His hair how it naturally sticks up into a mohawk in the back of his head. I love him so much.



  • Our Bishop. During our hard times we needed to lean on him for guidance and I know that he is close to the spirit. I felt it when he layed his hands on my head and gave me a 10 minute long blessing. He knew my struggles...without mention of them on my part. He is so dedicated. He loves us all and cares for all.



  • My neighbors..The Lees. We love them and I am sure we will always stay in touch with them. We are thankful that they are our neighbors.



  • My daughter Mats. I love her. She is a lot like me. She likes to write and read and has loads of style. One of my most favorite thing she does, is that when she gets home from school, she will go to her room for like 15 minutes and put an entirely new, creative outfit on. Her 2nd grade teacher said to her, "Madison, I think you will be a fashion Designer when you grow up."



  • My Mother in law. She has always been so accepting of me even when I had no desire to be a member of the church. She teaches me new things and I love it.



  • My home. It is my most favorite place to be. I really feel safe and comforted here. It is my safe refuge from the World.


  • Blane. He is really one of a kind. He gives me so much to smile at. He plays hard and really loves life. His Primary teachers love him and say that he is so smart and that he knows all the songs. I love him!


  • My Davin. He is such a great kid. He is in kindergarten and I couldn't be prouder of him. He is turning into such a funny guy, he know how to share his feelings....When he is sad, mad, scared he lets me know. I love his personality and so do the girls at school! He gets a little embarrased to talk about it, but he likes it...who wouldn't, right?


  • Dason, that he planned out our date for our Anniversary...Picnic at the park with Grimaldi's pizza then to a scary haunted house. This was thoughtful.


  • Heavenly Father watching over us financially and putting people in our pathway to help us out of tight situations. Thank you Jenny and Cody.


2010???

We rung in 2010 with lots of fun in our own home...this will become our new New Years tradition, I am sure. We had fun playing monopoly, playing some Wii games, card games and eating some BBQ ribs at 10 oclock. Gotta have a late night SNACK to help stay awake...not to mention all of the junk food we consumed as well.

There is nothing better than an evening in with the people that mean the most to me in this WorLd!

EverYone, Except for Vance...made it til' midnight!


Popping some "kid friendly" poppers.


Hooray for 2010!!

Some sweet bubbly!

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Train Park
























a nEw lil' niece for me to snuggle...

Kendric Jean was born in December. She was such a peanut!
My Sister did not find out what she was having so it was so exciting during her delivery to see what she was having. We were all hoping for a girl. When she came out I yelled..." it's a GIRL!!" I was a little anxious to see. I called home to tell Madison what her Aunt Nell had and she was so happy...finally a girl cousin on the Derfus side for her. She asked me the cutest thing after I told her that the baby was a girl. She said, "Mom, does she look like me?" It was so cute! My Grandma who just passed away predicted that Janelle would have a girl...she was right!





MoRe eXtended fam with the DerfS




eXtended FaM ChristmaS Allen side


Grandma Sharon had a dog tag made up for each grandchild that said, "Papa Dan loves me the most". She also gave each grandchild and son/daughter and in- law a $2 bill. She said that Pa(her Dad) carried one in his wallet for good luck. He died a couple of years ago and she thought we could remember him by this $2 bill.